Hot For Teacher - #27

Always Open: Hot For Teacher - #27

Join Barbara Dunkelman, Mariel Salcedo, and special guests Nick Scarpino and Tim Gettys as they discuss a viewer's confessional, what they would change about themselves, and a user submitted question about cheating on this week’s Always Open. This episode is sponsored by Boll & Branch (http://bit.ly/2qasJo9) and Casper (http://bit.ly/2d4iXlI)

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  • Moonstonebat FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    5 days ago

    10 Acts of Service

    8 Physical Touch

    6 Quality Time

    3 Receiving Gifts

    3 Words of Affirmation


    i can definitely see physical touch being top 2 (in fact its like the fastest way to my heart) but it took me a while to see how much an act of service can change my outlook of a person. Im use to being the one doing the service, either with my family or group of friends so i can definitely see my self going "wow, i like you" doing someone else doing something for me. 

  • hpstar11 FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold Creative Writer

    3 weeks ago

    10 Quality Time

    8 Physical Touch

    6 Acts of Service

    6 Words of Affirmation

    0 Receiving Gifts

  • digipoke FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold Mariana

    1 month ago

    8 Quality Time

    7 Acts of service

    7 Physical Touch

    6 Words of Affirmation

    2 Receiving Gifts

  • AriaNytress FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    1 month ago

    11 Quality Time

    6 Acts of service

    6 Physical Touch

    6 Words of Affirmation

    1 Receiving Gifts

  • EarlVOstar FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    1 month ago

    9 Quality Time

    8 Physical Touch

    7 Recieving Gifts

    5 Words of Affirmation

    1 Acts of Service

  • Radicalizer FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    1 month ago

    11Quality Time

    9Physical Touch

    7Words of Affirmation

    2Receiving Gifts

    1Acts of Service

  • JustinJones3 FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold RayGunJones

    1 month ago

    10 physical touch

    10 quality time 

    words of affirmation 

    acts of service 

    receiving gifts

  • rebkos FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    1 month ago

    Seems about right: 

    10    Quality Time
    6    Acts of Service
    6    Physical Touch
    6    Words of Affirmation
    2    Receiving Gifts


    You don't need to give me anything... or really do anything for me... Just hang out.


  • nmarquis9 FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    1 month ago

    I have a lot of trouble making friends and one of my best friends of all time felt forced to "dump" me as a friend because her long-term boyfriend (whom she met a couple years after me) saw a drunk message she sent me expressing her (platonic) love for me. Admittedly, she is a flirty person, and we had some "what could have been" feelings, but it was a really shitty feeling to lose one of my closest friends at a time when I was also going through a lot of huge life upheavals (breakup, losing my job, friends moving away). I don't bear her boyfriend any ill will, he's a really great guy who is awesome for her and I never would have done anything to come between them.

    I guess what I'm saying is, there's a third person in the mix there; it's not about the girl and her boyfriend and what she needs to do, there's every possibility that the new attractive guy has no intention of taking advantage of her attraction and could be a good friend who is interested in preventing her from ruining her relationship, should that situation arise.

  • StellarSky FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold the coolest of cats

    1 month ago

    Wow I didn't realize Barb was so tall! I thought she actually seemed pretty small when I met her but she's 4 inches taller than me huh

  • Reynmar95 FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold The PuertoRican Doctor

    1 month ago

    I wanted to do this through your email but I cant find it so here i go. 

    This question is for the sexpertise section of Always Open

    Recently my friends have told me that Im giving of a desperate vibe when it comes to meeting and wanting to date new girls. I remember that when I was back in high school i was very alone and desperate to feel "love" from another towards me. Even though Ive grown and I feel like Ive controlled that aspect of myself my friends still believe that I am searching too hard,, as if I was trying to force it. In my opinion I dont believe I am, since its already hard enough for me to meet interesting girls that might give me a chance.It seems that if I put myself out there I seem desperate, yet if I dont how will I meet new people and get a chance to date. My question is when do  you know when to put yourself out there without seeming desperate? How do I get out of the paradox?

  • SarahWithStars FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold No Family Bias- Honest

    1 month ago

    thanks Nick&Tim for being such decent chaps, this was a true delight xxxx

  • Laxel FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    1 month ago

    9 Quality time

    8 Physical Touch

    6 Acts of service

    6 Words of Affirmation

    1 Receiving Gifts


    Thats very accurate for me!

  • Laxel FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    1 month ago

    You should put Texas on the show, that dude seems to have a lot of wisdom to share!

    • Strunson FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

      1 month ago

      I vote Texas for the season finale  bowtie

  • Wolfgang_Fyst FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold Sensei

    1 month ago

    Physical Touch: 11

    Quality Time: 9

    Words of Affirmation: 5

    Acts of Service: 4

    Receiving Gifts: 1


    Side note: If I could change any physical trait about myself (aside from maybe adding another inch or two onto the ol' man-carrot), it would likely be the correction of my shitty vision.

    • merizlb FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

      1 month ago

      That little aside made me spit coffee all over myself. Thank you.

  • SassySoucyxo

    1 month ago

    11 Quality Time

    10 Physical Touch

    4 Words of Affirmation

    3 Acts of Service

    2 Receiving Gifts

    I'd think physical touch would be the highest but it sounds right. (also it's cool cause the site has a teen version) I suggest coming to Toronto, Ill see you then. 

  • SassySoucyxo

    1 month ago

    If I could change something physical Id make my hair grow slower. Every girl with slow growing hair was fast growing hair, but you don't! cause it ALL grows fast, the day after shaving my legs are already prickly, it suuuccckkkksss. And i dye my hair bright colours and there's visible roots in like a week and a half. 

  • LFYomisma FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    1 month ago

    Got this at the test:


    10Acts of Service

    7Words of Affirmation

    6Quality Time

    4Physical Touch

    3Receiving Gifts


    I think is pretty accurate D:

  • arcangel4774 FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    1 month ago

    You know RT is good at advertising when yu hear casper and your first thought isnt th friendly ghost

  • arcangel4774 FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    1 month ago

    The test shows which way you feel love, not which way you show love.  For example i show love by acts of service primarily and physicality second.  However i feel loved most through verbal affirmation.

  • Majorwood93 FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold Major of Wood

    1 month ago

    I really hope that you guys make an episode with Texas on! He only seems to ever come on in short intervals and I would honestly love to hear what he has to say. 

  • MissVengeance FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    1 month ago

    I'm 5'3 and I can't even reach 50% of the cupboards and shelves in my apartment haha. I would give anything to be taller :P

  • TimWh FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    1 month ago

    I'm 6'3" I would have liked to hit the 2 metre mark.

  • bittersweetbee FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    1 month ago

    @ anonymous POLYAMORY

  • EliJayFly FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    1 month ago

    Stop trying to make kinda funny happen

  • DanielCasey43 FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    1 month ago

    Barbara got real handsy with Nick this episode

  • kaikaips3 FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    1 month ago

    I was going to go take the Love Quiz or whatever, but they only had male and female for gender

    • josoi FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

      1 month ago

      I'm pretty sure it doesn't affect the outcome of the test, so if you're still curios what your result would be you can just pick one for the sake of being able to take the quiz.

    • kaikaips3 FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

      1 month ago

      @josoi ok cool, thanks

  • NegativeTravis FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    2 months ago

    Tall women are a treasure. In 24 years I've only ever met one woman who was taller than me, but I'm also 5'10''. Naturally she had no idea I even existed because it was high school and I was a nobody.


    And since score posting seems to be a thing:

    9 Physical Touch

    8 Quality Time

    8 Words of Affirmation

    5 Acts of Service

    0 Receiving Gifts


    Needless to say, I don't get a lot of attention.

  • Gildarts FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold That Guy

    2 months ago

    I will never understand the idea of how common it is supposed to be that people are attracted to their teachers. Then again, my mom was a teacher so my mental image of a teacher always defaults to her.

  • Shousuke FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    2 months ago

    can anyone direct me to the right 5 languages of love link they used? i googled it but i'm not sure which is the right one 

    • Gildarts FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold That Guy

      2 months ago

      Go to the link on the right side of this page.(i.e. the bottom of the link dump).

      Then on their website click on the big learn you love language button. Choose "myself" and the next option followed by filling the info in the fields that follow. Then the quiz starts. Answer honestly, it is really good.

  • Lilianth

    2 months ago

    I'm 5'11 and same here for gal with early growth spurt I was always the tallest and one of the youngest  in my class since elementary school. But to be honest I loved it being the girl looking over everyone just made me feel older and everyone treated me that way as well. Funny thing about growing taller was before I did I had fucking bigfoot feet that everyone had to point out which ugh so glad I grew into them heheh.


    • SassySoucyxo

      1 month ago

      I was one of the tallest girls in elementary and it was great cause i was like "bow down bitches" but it was only cause I hit my grow spurt really early, not cause I'm really tall (I'm 5'5) so now, nearing the end of high school, I'm one of the short ones. I guess it was fun while it lasted  joy

  • Xarchseies FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    2 months ago

    You should come to Halifax, we are the best!

  • weiss-baby FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold Ice Princess

    2 months ago

    that love languages quiz just proved to me how starved i am for love sleepy

  • WoodenGoods FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold A Box With Wheels

    2 months ago

    9 Words of Affirmation

    8 Quality Time

    5 Acts of Service

    5 Physical Touch

    3 Receiving Gifts


    Words of Affirmation, huh? I never would have guessed. It's not like I have rock bottom self-esteem or anything. No. Wait. Yes I do.

  • Emma_Knightly FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    2 months ago

    Mariel... Men ew? Me too, hon. 

  • timmahdee FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    2 months ago

    So is Kinda Funny part of the LP family in the same way Game Attack/Cow Chop are? They have merch in the RT store, but don't have their own subdomain of the website. Whats the dealio, yo?

  • DavidtheWavid FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    2 months ago

    Thanks, guys. Now I'm self-conscious about the way I walk.

  • SteveRGR FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    2 months ago

    Come to Toronto! Make a come-back to the Toronto Fan Expo

  • Kariodude FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    2 months ago

    "We have a show called Love & Sex Stuff"


    The hell you do. You haven't filmed an episode in a year.

    • brettless FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

      2 months ago

      calm down, the last episode aired in august. 

  • atorp2 FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    2 months ago

    8 Words of Affirmation

    7 Physical Touch

    7 Quality Time

    6 Acts of Service

    2 Receiving Gifts

  • DrknssRules1 FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    2 months ago

    12 Quality Time

    7 Words of Affirmation

    6 Physical Touch

    5 Acts of Service

    0 Receiving Gifts

  • Operation-KeepGavinAlive FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold RTX Guardian 2k17

    2 months ago

    I did actually take the love languages quiz and I was surprised to find that Physical Touch was not high up there. I was words of affirmation and acts of service.

  • hunter559 FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    2 months ago

    I wonder is Mariel also wishes she was a baller?

    • Mariel FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

      2 months ago

      Yes, but luckily I have a girl who looks good, so I call her. 

    • hunter559 FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

      2 months ago

      well played

  • bassiva FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    2 months ago

    Aspirer l'intestin, pousser les seins


    suck in the gut, push out the boobs. according to google translate, incase you were curious

  • terran18 FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold TerranBlade

    2 months ago

    11 Quality time 
    6 Acts of service 

    6 physical touch

    6 words of affirmation

    1 Receiving gifts

  • Zyemeth FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold Dr. Bamboozle

    2 months ago

    Mariel is just pure awesome. Always a good time when she shows up in anything.

    • Mariel FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

      2 months ago

       blush

  • Chaotic_Monk FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold Human

    2 months ago

    11 Quality Time

    7 Words of Affirmation
    6 Acts of Service
    6 Physical Touch
    0 Receiving Gifts


    I guess I like being in the same room as my significant other but hate being given nice things  laughing

  • Ezza94 FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    2 months ago

    Can agree with Barbara, I'm 5'10 and have thought about being shorter. It would be nice. But also I have huge hands and feet (for hands, think Lana from Archer as for feet size 11-12 Australian) so I have wished for them to be smaller too. 


    Stupid body proportions! 

  • xvalai FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold Xvalai

    2 months ago

    Okay, to the anon who submitted the sexpertise question: I have been/still kind of am that "new guy" with a girl who felt the same way. I am now really good friends with her and her boyfriend. We just kept hanging out with at least one other person to "keep an eye" on us, sometimes it was her boyfriend which put boundaries on me and her. Don't cut the new guy out, just keep in mind that you are in a good relationship that you don't want to ruin. Yes, situations vary, but if you can work it out you and your boyfriend just made a new friend.

  • thraaaaaaa FIRST Member Star(s) Indication of membership status - One star is a FIRST member, two stars is Double Gold

    2 months ago

    Quality time was #1 for me